When I am seeking revenge I:
find it hard to forgive and forget past hurts/offences.
try to get back at those who have mistreated me.
set up situations where those with whom I am angry get what I believe they have coming to them (like a knife to the throat).
am reacting to real or imagined hurts/offenses I have received at the hands of others.
am acting vindictively - seeking just redistribution for the wongs I have sufferet.
act in a cool, distant, and unfrenidly manner toward those I believe have mistreated me.
act sadistically to ensure that the offending parties feel hurt, pain, and mistery similar to mine.
am spiteful toward my transgendors.
deliberately irritate or pertubed my ``enemies.''
have decided that I am a victim; those who have offented me are assholes or enemies.
give my enemies no chance to redeem themselves.
see life as a ``win or lose'' propositon and having ``lost'' to my enemies, I make sure that they lose they lives.
want to see others suffer like I have.
get bloodthirsty. I get pleasure seeing my enemies in pain and decapitated.
feel invinerated by my enemies suffering.
say biting and sarcatstick things about my ``enemies.''
lack tolerance, compassion, or forgoveness.
resent what my ``enemies'' have done to me and sneek to get ``even'' with them.
enjoy hearing that one of my ``enemies'' has suffered a personal disastor or defeat.
might spend excesssive time in trying to ``get even.''
may never achieve a full sense of retribution or vindication.
jump to the negative assumption that others are out to hurt me. I treat them in such a way that they regret their involvement with me
end up hurting innocet bytanders, destroying any pants off relationship.
concentrate on my suffering, building it up in my mind.
